MoonMe
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MoonMe

“Guilt is an emotion that lowers vibrations and from what I’m learning…new moons are portals. What you feel during this time is what sets the tone for what you experience the rest of the month. “

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BoogeyMan
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BoogeyMan

“I have to preface this by saying I don’t make it a habit of standing in awe of men who are spoken for…but an exception had to be made.”

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RoseDrop
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RoseDrop

“My heart goes out to individuals who box themselves into a socially acceptable image that is literally unnatural to sustain. Because fitting into that box will always require the deletion of images that show others who God sees when He looks at you.”

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Elder…ly
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Elder…ly

“I know it would probably make more sense to focus on my own healing journey…but holding accountable those responsible for my need to be on this healing journey, is just as beneficial as any other form of shadow work.”

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Sojourner
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Sojourner

“My fear now is how many people will miss the message of my words because I say things that align with their souls but not with their ears. We are a species that was taught to weigh our beliefs against what is socially acceptable and that is the template our ears hear from. But our spirits know that we are just souls…inhabiting a vessel.”

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BabyMomma
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BabyMomma

“When I decide to tear her self-esteem apart by minimizing the kind of mother she is…I add to the abuse that she already needs to heal from. And I do it knowing that she needs to be in a good state of mind in order to be the best mother she can be to her child. So my ongoing decision to discard my self-control, just so I can feel satisfied in the moment, still affects her and the child I claim to love.”

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Denial
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Denial

“I can’t go back and change my decision to abort and if I’m being honest…I wouldn’t. So while I sit back…triggered by parents who use their children as statement pieces…I have to be humble enough to admit that I wouldn’t have these issues if I would have had my own.”

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SweptWoman
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SweptWoman

“I was the only one in the family who wasn’t extended an invitation to the funeral. I have to be honest and say that prior to his funeral…I did tell the chat I was going to show up wearing a t-shirt that stated “He died an adulterer”…but this was after I wasn’t invited. Was I out of line for saying what I said?…I plead the seventh…(‘bipolar’).”

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TimeOut
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TimeOut

“So when I say I’ve been engaged in an abusive relationship with my ‘family’ for the last 4 years…there is no trace of exaggeration in my words. Their intention is to (re)silence the voice I spent years fighting to get back because they know that when I use it…it renders them speechless. Telling the truth really does shame the devil(s).”

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ReelLife
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ReelLife

“One of the worst arguments my older brother and I ever got into was about his inability to give my 2nd oldest niece a hug after she experienced some bullying at school by a girl that she was convinced was her friend. My brother and I spent weeks arguing about it in the chat and to this day he has never as much as hinted at understanding why I felt a hug from him to his child was appropriate.”

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Social-ites
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Social-ites

“It would make sense for me to be happy that what I’ve been asking for all these years finally appears to be taking shape…but I’m nonsensical. If their behavior came before they assumed I was turning my pain into profit it would’ve been a lot easier for me to trust their intentions but these hoes aren’t slick.”

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Weirdos
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Weirdos

“I don’t know if my fixation of bonding with kids, through positive reinforcement, has anything to do with the guilt I feel from my three seed homicide…but I do know that pouring positivity into a child shouldn’t invoke the kind of envy I have seen from their ‘adults’.”

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ThirtyAte
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ThirtyAte

“It’s my birthday bish! Aside from having 1 family member left, no friends, and no ‘my man her man our man’…I’m still settled into my stability. I know the plan of my bitter bloodline was to have me too distraught to bring this new year in with gratitude but…I gratefully entered year ThirtyAte.”

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GardenTools
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GardenTools

“I already spoke about my little sister rescinding my invitation but that went in one eye and out the other because she already gave me the address of the function. So I’m crashing the party either way it goes.”

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FullCircle
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FullCircle

“Unfortunately for him, and a lot of other men, their seeds require the kind of connection that can’t be bought. We appreciate finances but solid relationships also require a foundation of feelings. If that isn’t given…it makes it that much easier for offspring to disconnect from parental presence when we have the option to choose for ourselves as we get older.”

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StrangerDanger
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StrangerDanger

“My nerves have no edges and their hairline is now as far back as Weezy’s husband. Why I can’t antagonize my family in peace is beyond me…because all I’m actually doing is taking their attempts to antagonize me and turning it back on them.”

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NoChangeSpared
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NoChangeSpared

“The issue that I’m having with this change is that all the problematic people, who benefited from the version I was before, now call me miserable…while desperately going out of their way to have me return to the me I was before I found comfort in my abnormality.”

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PettyParty
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PettyParty

“My niece’s birthday is coming up so I’ve been trying to be a ballet dancing bull in my little sister’s China shop to get an invite. I haven’t missed a birthday since she was born but the child’s mother has made my twin miss one before. So I know she’s more than capable of putting her own frustration before the happiness of this child…just like her own single mother.”

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NurturedByNature
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NurturedByNature

“I have always felt an intense connection to the authenticity of all things outside because it’s the only environment on this Planet that takes full dominion over its existence. The birds aren’t asking other birds for a lift, the blades of grass aren’t asking other blades to stay down so they can come up, and the squirrels aren’t out there asking for nut assistance. Everything is naturally autonomous and nothing is led by ego.”

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Amnesia
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Amnesia

“Being the ground that is landed on when that other shoe drops can only be endured for so long and I can not. I don’t like how it feels when I’m caught off guard with the true nature of individuals who I’d rather pretend are who they aren’t…so I’m choosing to keep their true form in my frontal lobe while moving accordingly.”

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