SoUlstice
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SoUlstice

“My ‘family’ hasn’t had a good meal off me since I aired them out on FB but today that changed after I got a text from my twin telling me my little sister decided to move 4 hours away.”

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Chrysalis
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Chrysalis

“I can’t give any more 2nd chances for someone to show me that they really are who they already showed me they were the first time.”

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Cooked
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Cooked

“I’m very familiar with how females…and feminine males…move when you invoke their sense of inferiority.”

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LambChop
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LambChop

“Speaking on magic, in the black community, requires me to willfully look ‘crazy’. Speaking on magic as a ‘bipolar’ person…requires me to look ‘bipolar’. And speaking on magic that’s been done on me…requires me to say I had magic done on me.”

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DisCarded
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DisCarded

“The last full moon of the (calendar) year is here and over the last week there were a few fumbled moon rituals attempted on me but…I found the lesson and moved around.”

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Elaboration
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Elaboration

“I noticed that men raised by their mothers…adopt the same inability to control their emotional responses when they can’t control whether or not the woman they want…only wants them.”

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BlackLove
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BlackLove

“The reality of black love is…most of us enter into relationships to avoid being alone because being alone means we have to be with ourselves.”

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KFC
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KFC

“Everything happening in our present reality is meant to shape what we experience in our future. “

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Aunting
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Aunting

“I always told myself that I would never pass down the kind of knee-jerk anger type correction that I received but when given the opportunity to do better…I did more of the same.”

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P’Popper
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P’Popper

“I’m guessing the fact that I no longer need them to validate what I’ve been saying…is taking away my desire to give them opportunities to offer me validation.”

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GhostWriDer
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GhostWriDer

“Now…I realize that there will never be a time when there isn’t an attempt to pull from my energy because…it’s pressure.”

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MiddleFingers
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MiddleFingers

“All I know is…he picked a side…it wasn’t the one I was on…so he can stay where he’s at.”

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Complimentary
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Complimentary

“But that didn’t stop them from telling me that at the root of the imbalance…is my fear that allowing someone else to build me up will then give them the ability to do the opposite.”

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BoreDumb
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BoreDumb

“I’m grateful for the peace I now have but…I’m bored.“

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Wife’dUp
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Wife’dUp

“She’s teaching me how to tame the part of my ego that defaults back to the ‘why it’ll never happen’ thought pattern, because she intuitively knows those thoughts are what prevents what can happen from happening.”

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Equal
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Equal

“But when I started being honest with myself…I had to acknowledge that I was the worst kind of woman any man could’ve had.”

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Twin
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Twin

“Twin flames follow each other’s energy into every lifetime and there’s a magnetic attraction that eventually pulls them together…no matter what.”

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GoldenTicket
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GoldenTicket

“I never want to understand how it’s possible for a man to have the full commitment of a woman that rides for him unconditionally, but still have a desire to hitchhike with randoms.”

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DollFace
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DollFace

“If anything was ever off with communication, I would do whatever my insecurities told me to do to get it back to where I thought it should be. So pop-ups, back to back…to back calls, colorful text messages, and tearful apologetic voicemails…once I realized I went too far…were always on the table.”

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TheMotto
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TheMotto

“The video for Squabble Up came out today and all its cultural references had me spending my time searching for the meaning of the ones I didn’t know. And I don’t expect any other take away from watching him work because…”Everything Is Something”.”

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